Stories from a Lost Year: How people lived in 2020
December 20, 2020
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Life in 2020 has been dominated by big stories. The Covid-19 pandemic. Protests against multiple centuries of systemic racism and injustice. An impeachment. A presidential election. Murder hornets.

But beneath every one of these big stories is a long list of smaller personal ones. Everyone’s experience of 2020 has been different, and everyone’s story has something worth hearing. I went looking for those stories, in hopes of understanding the events of this year from the ground level.

What I found was remarkable. I talked to a woman who nursed an injured baby pig back to health. I talked to a sex worker who very quickly had to figure out how to make his business Covid-19-safe. I discussed opening up a marriage — at a time when nobody can see anybody in person — with someone who did just that. I talked to a woman who fell in love with her mailman, and a postal carrier who grew distressed at how little her rural community seemed to be taking Covid-19 seriously.

I’ll be sharing 14 of those stories over the next few weeks. I think they all underline the fact that no matter how dramatic or mundane your year was, it was that much more fascinating or difficult or compelling because of the times in which it took place.

This year is almost over, and another will follow. I’m so glad we all got through it together.


The Lost Year

We’ve lost so much in 2020. But we’ve found some things, too.

Amanda Northrop/Vox


A woman, an injured baby pig, and a series of revelations

“It’s easier to believe everything is holy lying under the stars with friends and a pig sleeping in the crook of your arm.”

An illustration of a white baby pig inside a yellow circle, against a black background.

Amanda Northrop/Vox


Non-monogamy, Zoom sex, and the agonizing wait to kiss your partner

“As soon as I started taking non-monogamy seriously, it was like any other coming out.”

An illustration of a hand holding a smartphone against a background filled with hearts.

Amanda Northrop/Vox


A dad, his son, and the bittersweet realization of life’s true priorities

“In America, we say everything we do is for our child, but we spend a lot of time working and accumulating money and stuff that we don’t need.”

Amanda Northrop/Vox


Coming out — over the phone, to your mom, and across a language barrier

“I can’t do any of my old standup comedy. And I don’t want to do it. I literally am starting over from scratch.”

Amanda Northrop/Vox


Marriage, kids, two jobs, maskless customers, and #BlackLivesMatter in the rural South

Coming Monday, December 21


A sudden crisis, online sex work, and a better understanding of privilege

Coming Tuesday, December 22


A new dress, a new self-acceptance, and a sudden onset of the soul

Coming Wednesday, December 23

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